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Hope Tote Campaign

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 14:08:32 EST

Toothbrushes, shampoos, deodorant, razors, hairbrushes and other personal care products are standard in most homes, but for people who are struggling, living on the streets or in shelters, these everyday items take on more of a luxury status.

Once again Haven of Rest Ministries is teaming up with the community to assist people who are homeless and hurting obtain the items. Last year, the program distributed 1419 adult and 75 kids ‘Hope Totes’ as a result of the holiday season campaign.

Among the other items wanted are toothpaste, soap, shaving cream, conditioner, lip balm, socks, combs, shoelaces, hand and body lotion and facial tissues.

Started in January, the items, which should be new and unopened, can be dropped off at any of the locations listed below. The drive will run through March 30, 2012. Thank your for you support.

Haven of Rest’s Donation Drive Thru, 207 E. Market St., Akron
Berean Christian Store, 143 Rothrock Rd., Copley
Berean Christian Store, 110 30th Street NW, Canton
The Galaxy Restaurant, 201 Park Center Drive, Wadsworth
Hartville Kitchen, 1015 Edison St., Hartville
Word of Life Church, 1260 Monroe Ave., NW (suite 5c), New Philadelphia
Walnut Creek Mennonite Church, 2619 County Road 144, Sugarcreek
Cappabianza’s Natural Foods Market, 4946 Darrow Rd., Stow

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

Have you ever thought about...

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 11:12:17 EST

Have you every thought about what it may be like coming to a shelter? Perhaps it starts with……

Crisis.

Panic. I have to leave. Find a place for me and my child to stay!

Fear. What am I going to do??

Who to call?

Where to go?

A shelter?

No, there must be another answer.

A friend?

They don’t pick up.

Family?

They don’t trust me. I can’t trust them.

A shelter?...Really?

Anything else.

Harvest Home? Haven’t heard of it…..

Call the number. They say they have room….should I go? My baby is crying. I should go. I have no other choice.

Walk through the front door. You can do it.

A warm face, a hug, a smile. Can this be real? Don’t they know what I am going through?

A kind word. The Word. Who is this Jesus? God loves me? Doubt it.

The first week. This isn’t as bad as I thought. They seem to care.

They do care! Things will work out. I can get a place on my own. No more depending on others.

I want to know more about God. Could He really help me? Does He really know me?

I am thankful for what I have been given. So many people reach out. They are so nice.

God does love me. Or else there wouldn’t be a place called Harvest Home. I am going to make it.

Aimee Pryor, Harvest Home Assistant to the Director

How To Live A Life

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 14:35:49 EST

As the Donor Relations Coordinator for Haven of Rest Ministries in Akron, Ohio, I have a wonderful opportunity to see people at their best. That frequently occurs when they are being generous. Let me give you some examples of what I mean.

It is about three weeks before Christmas as I write this. A lady, probably in her 60’s, came in yesterday. Her organization has been responsible for purchasing or getting donations from others to purchase brand new toys for children who have either stayed at Harvest Home, our women and children’s shelter, or for families that have a connection with Haven of Rest who need assistance with presents for Christmas. This woman’s organization has been responsible for the purchase of 70 (and still counting) brand new toys that were given away to needy children this Christmas. She was so excited. She was as enthused as a teenage girl having a slumber party with her friends! It was just awesome to see the smile on her face and hear the excitement in her voice as she talked about how they did it.

Then there is the man who came in about a month ago to deliver 500 pounds of beef as a donation from his company. He too was so enthused. The smile and sparkle in his eyes was positively infectious. He stayed for a tour and said his company intends to make this type of donation to help us every year.

A Christian women’s group contacted Haven of Rest Ministries to see if we would be interested in hats and scarves they were going to crochet to be given to those who come to us for help. When their group came in, we took a picture of the six ladies who were ambassadors for this ministry of love. Once again, the excitement level was off the charts! There were a lot of smiles and laughter and good feelings. Their group had crocheted thirty hats and thirty matching scarves for men, women and children. The many hours they must have spent creating these gifts for the poor were a small investment compared to their feelings of love represented by these, their gifts to complete strangers.

Earlier this week I had the privilege to go and collect the fruits of the labor of a nearby company. They had undertaken the goal of helping us to re-stock our pantry with canned fruits and vegetables. As I talked with one of the committee members who were responsible for this effort, she told me that they had made it into a competition between the various floors in their building to see which floor would collect the most food. Some members of the winning floor made a point of joyfully sharing that their group had won the competition. Yes, they did win. Haven of Rest and the many people who eat our 600 meals on an average day also won! It was beautiful to behold. In fact they were so successful we filled our truck with literally over a ton of food, an increase of 113% over what they gave the previous year! It was awesome to see and feel their esprit de corps.

The common theme I saw in each of these experiences was a thread of love, sacrifice and selfless giving to others in need. It was a great reminder to me of how to live a happy life.

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

Caring Strangers

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 10:06:24 EST

For over twenty years I ‘ve worked at Harvest Home, a homeless shelter for women and children.

For twenty years I’ve seen children who are homeless experience Christmas with us. I’ve seen the smiles on their faces when opening their presents, often the presents are from people they don’t know. Gifts given by caring strangers who wanted them to have the best Christmas possible.

I’ve seen them sulk when afraid there would be no presents for them under the tree. I’ve seen their faces light up when told, Just wait until Christmas morning - you will see! I’ve even asked them if they had fun at our Christmas Party and did they really like their presents. Often the answer is yes to both questions. But still, I wonder what does a homeless child think about when living at a shelter during Christmas? Are they confused? Are they wondering why they are not in their own home? Do they ask their mother why are all these people living in the same place together? Are they anxious, thinking “Santa” doesn’t know where they are?

I don’t have the answers to these questions. I am not brave enough to ask a child personal probing questions. I guess how they really feel is between them, God, and hopefully their parents. One thing I know in spite of their questions due to the kindness of strangers they have a fun and happy Christmas. I also know that during their time with us they experience the joy of Christmas that goes beyond receiving gifts.

The joy of God’s unspeakable gift: “for unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given.” Merry Christmas.

Yvette McMillan
Director Women’s Division

Expectations

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 11:28:57 EST

Christmas time can be so many things to us. We remember Christ’s birth and God’s precious gift of forgiveness through his Son. Many also remember times with family, church services, presents, decorations, shopping, favorite meals, songs, and movies. For most if not all of us, Christmas doesn’t always match the hype or standard that society would present to us.

For some, family gatherings with smiles and warm memories feel like a dream or something that only happens on TV. The whole package can build up to such high expectations that it’s possible to think that it does not happen in reality. I am always trying to make sure that my expectations match God’s expectations for my life today. Often I realize they don’t.

Four men on our program recently shared how Christmas is different this year than in years past. One of the recurring themes was that this was the first Christmas in a long time that they will be sober. Sadly, past Christmas holidays have been events they would rather forget. However, this Christmas is different. Expectations are different. Great hope is found in Christmas this year. It’s more than songs, presents, decorations, parties and extra days off from work. This year is the first Christmas to celebrate how everything has changed. Getting together with family takes on new meaning, giving gifts has greater purpose, and the songs take on deep importance. This year, whether with family or away, is the year that transformation took root. It is the year that old things passed away and all things became new.

My prayer is that my expectations would be shaped by the One that this season is all about. It’s my prayer this Christmas that those who walk through our doors and are in our circle of influence would know the Christ of Christmas.

Jim Cole
Director of Men’s Division

Its All Because of God

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 11:49:16 EST

I really enjoy seeing God work in individual’s lives. I work in a ministry that requires a lot of work, time, and personal initiative to reach out and help those in need. It is easy to think, “we did this” or “because of Harvest Home, a life is changed.” But the truth is, because of God, a life is changed.

A great example of this is from a lady we have on the Becoming Program, our long-term discipleship program. She rededicated her life while at Harvest Home and expressed interest in discipleship and spiritual growth. When we meet, she shares all the prayers God has been answering in her life, how she takes time each day to walk and pray and how that has grown her faith. She shares the insights God gives her, her growing understanding of the Word, and her love for people and sharing with others the change Christ made in her. This isn’t anything I have taught her God has been at work drawing her, changing her, and transforming her life. I can take no credit, nor would I want to.

It is often said we are instruments God chooses to use to bring people to Him. I agree with this. The facility, the employees, and the donations are all given to God for Him to use. Yet, He is the one gripping the hearts of those He has called to Himself, not us. Careful we must be of ever taking credit of something God has done. I remember learning in Bible College that God doesn’t need us. It was hard for me to hear at first (my selfish desire to feel I was needed was being challenged!) God is more than capable of reaching those that are lost, those that are hurting, and those that are in need. It is a wonder then that He gives us the privilege to be used by Him. We get to taste and see that He is good when we see a life changed. That inspires us, encourages us, and spurs us on to serve Him more, not so we get the glory, but because we have seen God get the glory and it brings us joy. A. W. Tozer is quoted as saying, “He needs no one, but when faith is present, He works through anyone.” May we live out our faith by serving a God that transforms lives.

Aimee Pryor
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

A transition, that makes life worth living.

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 31 Oct 2011 11:08:09 EST

Fall is not my favorite time of year by any means, but it is a time when foliage is beautifully displayed with vibrant shades of red, green, yellow and orange. As fall gives way to winter, I am reminded that it is time again for yet another transition. Just as the hot, bright sunny days of summer gave way to cooler temperatures of fall, fall colorful foliage will soon be replaced by snow covered streets and icy cold winds. (Why did my parents choose Northeast Ohio????)

Our lives can also transition very quickly. The Word says our time here is like a vapor – here today and then suddenly gone. I guess that is why how I live my life has always been very important to me. I want my life to count for something more than just an age or number of years on a job – I want my life to have eternal impact. Through my work at the Mission, I help to raise the resources necessary to make eternal transition possible in the lives of people served here every day. When a life is transformed through Jesus, transition happens and eternal life in Christ is born.

While providing food, shelter and care to hundreds of people daily can give them a chance to begin again, another even more powerful transition is offering hope through Christ to men, women and children who may have no hope. It is this kind of transition that makes life worth living.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

ATTITUDE OF GIVING

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Mon, 24 Oct 2011 09:23:53 EST

Yesterday I went to the calling hours for a man named Don, 82 years old, who died last week. He had been slowly declining over the last few years. Don had been a long time volunteer driver for Haven of Rest. His widow had a stroke and was in a nursing home for about a year. She is still in a wheelchair and has partial use of her limbs on one side because of the stroke.

When I walked into the funeral home there were a number of people ahead of me. The family stopped and spoke to each person. They were gracious and warm and friendly. When I got to the widow, she wasn’t sad but rather had a big smile on her face. She said to me, “God had His hand in every bit of this. He helped me through.” There were no tears or sadness. Rather there was a sense of victory knowing her husband was in heaven and she would one day join him there.

That’s what is so awesome about Haven of Rest-it is the hope that is given to those coming here for help. It is God’s hope!

I give thanks regularly for blessing me with almost seven years of ministry here at Haven of Rest. Oftentimes it seems as though I am blessed more than I am a blessing to others because of all the wonderful people employed, volunteering or donating here. It’s awesome to interact with caring, compassionate people. They are other-centered rather than self-centered. That’s part of the difference. The other part is Jesus Christ!

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

She Was...

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 13:21:07 EST

She was crying.

I noticed it the first day she came in. The stress of coming to a shelter brought her tears. It was overwhelming, and life seemed to be pulling her down. She felt so discouraged.

She was angry.

The thought of a mother kicking her and her three children out upset her so much. How could a mother do this to a daughter? To her grandkids? Time and time again, when she hoped family would be there for her, she was disappointed, and then angry. She and her children had no other choice but to walk to Harvest Home.

She was hurt.

Memories of how she had been treated, talked to, and belittled from family surfaced emotions that she would rather stuff. The emotions would just bring tears, and she didn’t have time for tears; she had herself and her child to care for.

She was in pain.

The surgeries helped bring healing and the medicine helped ease the aches, yet the accident left more scars and injuries that made handling everyday tasks difficult. She was thankful she was alive, but wondered when she could truly live on her own again.

She found comfort.

One of our staff approached her, put her arm around her and comforted her. She felt a peace. It was just a few days before she realized it wasn’t as bad as she thought. She could find help here.

She found understanding.

She wasn’t as angry as when she first came in. She was learning that though you can’t always depend on family, you could depend on God. She felt for the first time in her life she was learning how to work on herself and learn from her past.

She found healing.

The hurt slowly lifted as she found that God could bring healing to her. It was easy to talk to staff and she found that they listened and truly cared. She could let the tears flow, and became open to God’s healing love.

She found joy amidst the pain.

She had never experienced such love and friendship before. As other women helped her with her needs and befriended her, she found joy. Soon she began to feel strength and hope for her future.

Yvette McMillan,
Director Women’s Division

God Can Be Trusted

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 12:22:43 EST

I am amazed at God’s goodness, how He cares for us and provides. Both personally and organizationally, I have had the privilege of seeing God come through over and over again. Whether it is the everyday miracles and blessings that make what we do at Haven of Rest possible, like donations of clothes, food, and finances, or the kindness of friends who just stop by my home because they are thinking of my family and drop off some fish they just caught, it all settles deep inside me that my Heavenly Father loves and cares for me. I’m reminded that the greater work is the one He is doing inside of me.

I’ve come to see that even in life’s pain and its joys, God can be trusted. However, this lesson is often our most difficult one to be taught and to try to teach. So often, those coming to Haven of Rest have been let down by so many, or they themselves have let people down. Hurts run very deep, and the idea of trusting a God they cannot see can sound foolish to them, when the people and institutions they can see haven’t lived up to their promises.

I love that we really do have good news. We can provide an opportunity for those coming to us to have a new experience. Not one that reinforces the pain of past hurts and failures, but one that demonstrates authenticity, love, and truth. We have news of forgiveness, reconciliation, restoration, salvation, and so much more, all because God sent His Son and demonstrated His love for us. So that while we were still messed up, broken, missing the mark and sinful, Christ died for us and rose again in victory over every last enemy, even death. What a blessing it is share in both word and deed that God can be trusted.

Jim Cole,
Director of Men’s Division

Praise Report!

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 10:10:32 EST

The day that I arrived at the Haven of Rest, I was broken and badly in need of change. I didn’t see the problem at first, but I knew that something was terribly wrong. Over the course of a week, I began to see my problem through the classes and constant scripture teaching. I was convicted and began asking questions and reading the Bible daily. At the end of that first week, I got on my knees and asked Jesus Christ to change me and make me the man that He wanted me to be.

The results were instant. I began to feel joy like never before and I continued to read my Bible with increased vigor. I started desiring to pray and talk to my new Heavenly Father at the most random times. I truly began to understand what I had done wrong and why I had needed saving. Next came this desire to talk about and share Jesus with anyone who I would listen.

The next thing was my calling to ministry work. To begin with, I resisted the calling because I was afraid of what might happen. I took a few months to think and pray about it. Finally, I knew that it was the only option for me because it was God’s plan. Since then, I have applied and been accepted to Emmaus Bible College in Dubuque, Iowa, and will move into my dorm on January 8 for my four-year degree. This came after help to take the ACT from some of the staff at the Haven of Rest. Mainly, Jason Hubbard helped me with this process, which is why I’ll be asking him to take the trip to Iowa with me. The Haven of Rest has made a difference in my life, but all of this was only made possible by God.

Kevin R.
Resident, Haven of Rest Ministries

When is Enough...Enough?

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 10:30:15 EST

When is enough...enough? Wow, that does not sound like something a believer in Christ should say. Does it sound like something a believer in Christ should feel? I think many of us have felt this way as we face day to day challenges. Parents in failing health, passing of loved ones, children with serious concerns, co-workers misunderstand you, plans fall through, hope dissipates, and circumstances appear to be insurmountable. I'll be honest, there are many times I feel this way. Then I walk through the doors of home, grab a bite to eat, retreat to my bedroom for a little solitude, and whisper a word of appreciation to the Lord for His many blessings.

What about the men, women and children who walk through the doors of Haven of Rest every day? I would imagine they, too, ask the question: When is enough, enough? Regardless of the reasons, decisions, behavior or circumstances that brought them to the Mission, the mere fact that they have no home is cause to wonder, will things ever get better?

At the Mission, we reach out to lives in distress, in turmoil, and near destruction. We provide nourishing meals, clean shelter, and care to these individuals. We also offer something each of us needs - hope through Jesus Christ. We can be the light of Love letting them know help is available and, yes, things can get better.

At times, life happens. Isn't it wonderful to know that we can comfort others with the same comfort we have received through Christ Jesus.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

Sewing Handbags, While Sewing Hearts

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 10:38:53 EST

Time Well Spent

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Wed, 17 Aug 2011 09:22:13 EST

Sunday means a lot of things to different people: church, Sunday dinner, Grandma’s house, or sports. For some, Sunday is so full of activities or family obligations that it has almost become a day to dread, not to enjoy.

Whatever we use this day for, God felt it was so important that He included it as one of the Ten Commandments: “Remember the Sabbath Day to keep it holy” (Exodus 20:8). From the very beginning God had this great plan—He gave everybody a day off.

This weekend I not only decided to take Sunday off, but Saturday as well. On these two days I would do nothing. This weekend was going to be used just to rest. A Do Whatever You Want Weekend, which means I wasn’t going to do anything!

It felt refreshing and relaxing to be at home not answering my phone, enjoying the quiet of being by myself. After lunch, I decided to take a 15-minute nap, and woke up 4 hours later! After waking up, I battled the urge to jump on my computer and decided to do my next favorite thing, relax! While relaxing I decided to use this time to read scripture, pray and meditate on God’s Word.

This brought my thoughts to what I pray for most often—the many who are struggling. Working at Haven of Rest I see the day-to-day struggles of so many people. Like Simon Peter when the Lord said to him “Feed my sheep,” I have sworn my undying devotion and loyalty to Christ Jesus. I often ask myself: how much do I really love Jesus? Well, more than anyone can ever imagine. Being part of a ministry that gives hope to people spiritually, emotionally and physically helps me to stay focus on what God has called me to do: Help His people.

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

Helping vs. Enabling

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 09 Aug 2011 08:53:59 EST

Helping vs. enabling, inevitably this discussion comes up from time to time in our ministry on just about every level, whether administratively, staff, volunteers, donors and clients. People have very passionate ideas and opinions on the topic. A passage frequently referred to is Matthew 25 about the hungry, naked and widowed, and whatsoever we do unto the least of these, we have done unto Christ.

This passage has always been a complex one for me because it gets used and quoted in so many ways. One individual may view it as a clarion call to provide money, food, clothing, and shelter without strings attached, just love in the name of Christ. This view fails to realize that sometimes what we think is helping may actually be hurting. Others will hear the call, but look at the passage and think, if I just gave a guy something that he uses to continue his addiction or destructive lifestyle then I’ve just done that to Christ. In essence, a simpler version of the thought could be stated; I just bought Jesus drugs or alcohol. This, however, can lead to a person doing nothing out of fear that it might be misused, or operate under a very cynical view that assumes the worst about everyone and ignores their need.

Am I helping? Am I hurting? Am I judging? Do I feel guilty because I have and they don’t? Are they a thief or a scammer? I think the dilemma of these thoughts is what many people feel when they pull up to a person with a sign at an expressway exit ramp or are approached for money.

Compassion and discernment are a pair that cannot be separated. It also points to the way Jesus ministered. The interventions were not expressed as God loves you and here you go enjoy your gift or miracle. They were always purposeful, directing the person to God and away from sin. Jesus was not afraid to say repent and sin no more while he was at the same time showing tremendous compassion to the felt needs of people coming to Him. He affirmed the dignity of the person but also exposed depravity. Most individuals want the compassion, not everybody wants to turn towards God.

I’ve come to see that for my part, I don’t want to get in the way of God. I want to heed the call, but I remember what Solomon said in Proverbs as well, and I will not be a willing party to their death. A measure of relationship is necessary to do this. These interactions cannot happen on the surface. Only if we are a people of compassion and discernment walking in step with God can we do this. The gospel of Jesus Christ is shared best in both words and actions.

Jim Cole
Director of Men’s Division

God's Grace and Our Choices

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 12:54:38 EST

Darryl and I spent our July 4 Holiday very differently this year. Our son, Daren, is called to ministry and is on the Ministers’ training program at our church. He also works at Haven of Rest where he speaks at some of the Chapel Services. Recently, he received an invitation from Bethany Baptist Church in Richmond, VA (his wife’s home church) to speak on Sunday, July 3. So being the “wonderful” parents we are (smile), Darryl and I made the three-day sixteen-hour trek to Virginia to support Daren.

As I listened to his incredible message on “Getting Back to Eden”, which focused on cultivating and keeping our relationship with the Lord in a fruitful place, I could not help but think about Daren’s own life and the many paths he has taken – some good and some not so good. I thought about God’s mercy and grace in his life and was immensely thankful that Daren chose to renew his commitment to Christ.

Men and women come to Haven of Rest off course. They have made choices that many of them now regret. They are beaten down by life’s battles and often confused by the consequences of their own actions. However, the mission gives them a place to rest and time to think about where they are, what their lives have been, and how their lives can change.

Our choices can led us at times where we do not want to go. They can cause us to waste opportunities and destroy relationships. But God!! (As my mom would say) can give us an exception. He can restore lives and open up new paths of opportunities. He has done so many times through the ministry of Haven of Rest. He has forgiven and brought about a bountiful harvest in the lives of hundreds of hurting men and women. “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.” Jeremiah 29:11

Attitude

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Tue, 28 Jun 2011 13:04:19 EST

June 22nd was the 20th annual Community Outreach Picnic that Haven of Rest held. This year it was in nearby Grace Park. I was partnered with another male staff to give away one free drink, either fruit punch, orange drink or water, to each person who requested one. That sounded like a simple and easy job to me so I readily accepted and went to work.

We had an estimated 600 people in attendance this year. We had games with prizes, inflatable games for kids, cotton candy, popcorn, face painting, horseback riding, watermelon, grilled hot dogs and traditional picnic food. Everything was free to anyone that came. The day turned out to be quite comfortable weather wise. It was just a nice day and a good time.

Many, many people came to get drinks both adults and children of all ages. Many were very grateful for the drink and graciously thanked us. Some expected more than one drink. When they were told about the limit of one per person, until everyone was served. Some did not like it and verbally expressed their displeasure.

This experience reminded me of what God must feel at many times in our lives. Many is the day that I wake up in the morning and forget to tell Him thanks for the blessings I take for granted like the gift of another day of life, vision, hearing, touch, taste and smell. The fact is that I am blessed with a job I love and a wonderful wife of 38 years with a beautiful home and dependable cars. I live in a country where, because of the sacrifices of many, we can openly worship God and not be persecuted or pay a steep price for that right to pray and worship publicly.

For me, the picnic is a great reminder to always be grateful to God for everything I have or am. He gave it all to me. There’s not one thing that I possess, tangible or intangible, that didn’t come from Him. What about you?

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

So what do you do for living?

(Jason Hubbard) — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 09:53:05 EST

I think we’ve all probably been asked that question a thousand times. It’s an innocent enough question to break the ice with someone we have just met. As a matter of fact I’ve probably asked that question as many times as I have been asked it.

Lately though I have been asking myself that question. I find myself continually asking, “Jason, what are you trying to accomplish with the men on the long-term program?” Inevitably my mind comes back to two verses that perfectly sum up my goals. Paul writes in Colossians 2:6-7, “Therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and established in your faith, just as you were instructed, and overflowing with gratitude.”

First, I want to see men receive Christ. Notice again what Paul writes, “as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord.” I want all of our men and women we serve to come to the saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus. I pray that they would all find the forgiveness and reconciliation possible in Christ.

Secondly, I want the men to understand what it means to walk with God. Again, Paul writes, “so walk in Him.” I want the men to understand what character and integrity are. I want them to understand what it means to become a godly man. I want them to learn to walk the path of righteousness with character and integrity.

Paul writes, “having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him.” I like this part of this verse. I think it is ironic that many of our men, myself included, tend to be transient by nature. A growing number of us have never really put down roots in our lives, and yet here Paul reminds us that ultimately as believers we are rooted in Christ. Not only are we rooted, but also our roots run deep enough to say we are “firmly rooted.”

He also says we are, “now being built up in Him.” Again I can’t help but see the irony. Most of us who either have been or currently are clients at the mission have continually been beaten and torn down our entire lives. This takes place through an endless number of scenarios. It can be physical or emotional. Perhaps it was a parent who continually told their child they would never amount to anything. Perhaps it was an abusive spouse who through years of torment has finally convinced his wife of her worthlessness. Or perhaps it was an entire culture that doesn’t understand their struggles that has convinced them that they will never be anything because of their struggles with various addictions or mental health issues.

Thankfully we serve a God who knows and understands us. And as the men come to understand who they are in Christ and what He has accomplished for us, they are able to be “built up in Him.”

Next we see Paul write, “established in your faith, just as you were instructed.” I want the men to know their faith is based in God and His Word, not ours. I try to do this by opening the Word of God with them. I address a number of life issues with men while they are here. As different as the issues are, we still seek to discover together what the Scriptures have to say. Also, I want the men to leave here with a solid basis of biblical doctrine. Without focusing on denominational distinctives, we cover most of the major themes of Scripture during a resident’s stay.

Lastly I want the men “overflowing with gratitude.” We live in a culture where the entitlement mentality runs rampant. Many who walk through our doors feel as though their demands must be met, without regard to our people, policy, or procedure. Instead of being demanding, I want the men to be thankful. I want them to see that we serve a God who graciously lavishes His love and blessing upon us. I want them to see we serve a God, who though He may not give us all we want, certainly gives us what we need. And for that I want the men to be thankful.

The men in our residential program do not leave here perfect. I don’t know about you but in my life I know I’m certainly far from it. But ideally the men will leave here different from when they arrived. I can’t help but think of a saying my friend uses often, “I may not be the man you want me to be, but I’m not the man I once was.” Praise God for His radical transformation of so many lives.

Jason Hubbard
Day Chaplain

10 Years later...

(Jason Hubbard) — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 10:50:23 EST

It seems impossible, but this summer will mark 10 years since I entered the doors of Haven of Rest Ministries. I still remember how scared and broken I was when I found myself 26 and homeless. I knew my life was a complete mess from years of drug addiction and poor choices. What I didn’t know at that time was how God was going to radically and completely change my life both now and for eternity.

It was here at Haven of Rest where I came to know Christ as my Lord and Savior. It was here at Haven of Rest where godly men invested themselves into my life. It was here at Haven of Rest where I learned who I am in Christ. It was here at Haven of Rest where I learned my true identity, not that of drunkard, addict, or victim, but that I am a child of the living God. It was here at Haven of Rest where I learned that I had to be ruthless in taking ownership of my life and the choices that I make. It was here at Haven of Rest where I learned to take responsibility for my past sin, and to give forgiveness to those who had sinned against and deeply wounded me. It was here at Haven of Rest where I felt God calling me to minister to men just like myself.

After my stay on our Long-term Residential Program, I enrolled at Emmaus Bible College where I would spend the next five years preparing for ministry. In God’s time, He led me back here to Haven of Rest to serve as the Assistant Chaplain. I have served in this role for the last four years. Now in God’s time, I have assumed the role of Day Chaplain, working side by side with men who struggle with the same issues that led me to Haven of Rest.

In closing, I echo the words of the apostle Paul where he would tell Timothy, “I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, because He considered me faithful, putting me into service, even though I was formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent aggressor. Yet I was shown mercy because I acted ignorantly in unbelief; and the grace of our Lord was more than abundant, with the faith and love, which are found in Christ Jesus. It is a trustworthy statement, deserving full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, among whom I am foremost of all. Yet for this reason I found mercy, so that in me as the foremost, Jesus Christ might demonstrate His perfect patience as an example for those who would believe in Him for eternal life. Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.”

Jason Hubbard
Day Chaplain’s

It's Not My Responsibility to Judge

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Mon, 23 May 2011 11:01:18 EST

I’ll be honest. I have been struggling with how I feel about individuals that stand on the corners of streets, holding signs saying they are homeless and in need of help. Perhaps my struggling emotions arise because I work at a homeless shelter. I know what we can provide and I know what resources are available.

But then, when driving up to a street corner this past week with my fiancé, I noticed a mother that was staying at our shelter standing on the corner holding a sign. I think my emotions somewhat got the best of me! I rolled down the window and exclaimed, “What are you doing?” (Perhaps not the most loving response upon seeing her.) After talking with her for the short time a traffic light will allow, I wished her the best as we drove away. My first reaction was disbelief and concern for her; she is pregnant and only 21. With all we can provide for her and help her with, I didn’t understand. She said she was leaving Harvest Home that day.

We may not understand the choices made by those we serve. But I was reminded that it is not my responsibility to judge, but to love. Loving means I do not put my expectations on someone else. When I am quick to judge, I am quick to want others to live up to my expectations and I want them to satisfy my desires. It’s not my job to judge her decision, but to love her even if I don’t agree with a choice she has made. It is only through love and kindness that we can be instruments that God can work through to demonstrate His love and kindness to anyone in any situation.

Aimee Radebaugh
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

It's Our Anniversary

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 16 May 2011 13:40:45 EST

Thursday, May 12 marked Darryl and my 32nd -wedding anniversary! We met on a blind date arranged by a young man my sister was dating. I remember sitting next to Darryl in the car as he told me about his life growing up in Detroit. I had never dated a man so articulate or who loved the Lord so deeply. I looked at him and said to myself "He's the one." I've had thirty-two years of sitting next to Darryl in many different cars and I still know in my heart there is no other place I'd rather be.

We have very different perspectives on our years of marriage. It seems our view of our life together has been shaped by our view of life, and our view of life has been, to a large degree, determined by our experiences. How can two people live their lives together for so many years and yet experience it so differently? But one aspect of our lives that we agree upon is our love for each other. In spite of countless disappointments, trials, challenges, heartbreaks we have shared a life full of love, joy of the Lord, and comfort of family and friends. The Lord gave me a special gift that Memorial Day in 1979. I knew it then and I know it now.

I pray that the men, women and children who come to Haven of Rest for many different reasons and whose lives have been shaped by many different experiences will accept the special gift God has for them – the gift of His love and forgiveness, hope, and a second chance.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

National Day of Prayer

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Tue, 10 May 2011 11:23:02 EST

On May 5, 2011, the National Day of Prayer was celebrated in our country. During that day millions of people prayed publicly for our elected officials, government and country. The purpose was to uphold our nation in prayer during these difficult times and ask for Almighty God’s blessing on our nation.

As I thought about this event and my personal involvement, I also realized how much prayer is an integral part of Haven of Rest. On a daily basis, all departments pray collectively in their areas. We have a daily devotional at 7:00 a.m. with chapel services at 11:00 a.m. and 6:45 p.m. daily. The Resident men have an additional prayer time at 1:00 p.m.. We also have over 2,300 people participating in our Power Line Prayer Ministry, who commit to praying for the Mission and our prayer requests every single day.

As Rev. Ben Walker, our Executive Director retired, used to say, “The only difference between Haven of Rest and any other homeless shelter is prayer.” Recently in talking with someone working on staff of another shelter, I could sense the frustration they have because of how careful they must approach the subject of prayer due to the fact their organization accepts government funding. The government regulations restrict what they can do and how they do it. We are blessed to be able to minister openly to the whole person, both physically and spiritually.

Prayer is the very foundation of this ministry. It was the foundation since the very beginning in 1943. It continues to be the heart of Haven of Rest Ministries today.

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

You�re the Best Mother in the World!

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Mon, 02 May 2011 16:28:12 EST

I think most of us believe we have the best mother in the world, and I am no different. My mother nurtured and protected my sister, brother, and I. Her relationship with each of us was very different because our needs were different. She took the time to get to know us. Like many women of her generation, she made sure we enjoyed delicious home-cooked meals every day. A tremendously talented singer, she filled our home with her absolutely beautiful songs of praise, and spent countless hours working on her sewing machine to make many of our clothes.

The one thing about her that stands out in my mind far beyond every thing else is her faith in Jesus Christ. My mother taught us about the Lord and she would often say, “This one thing I know, Jesus Christ, was crucified and resurrected from the dead.” She shared many examples of how His love and care was demonstrated to her throughout her life. These stories and her steadfast faith was the impetus for our accepting Christ as our Savior.

Each year, we look forward to buying mom that perfect gift for Mother’s Day and spending time with her reminiscing about all the special moments we shared together. Although her memory is fading, her eyes are still bright and alive with the love of the Lord.

Thinking of my mother reminds me of how challenging motherhood is and how much more challenging it can be for women who live unstable and uncertain lives. Because of the many crises homeless women face daily, they may not always take the time and spend the energy on their children as they would like. Today, let’s remember the moms staying at Harvest Home shelter. Pray for wisdom as they parent their children and if they don’t currently have a relationship with the Lord, pray their hearts will soon be open to experience His love and transforming power. Let’s also pray that they, too, may one day hear their children say "You’re the Best Mother in the World!”

Yvette McMillan, LSW MNO
Director of the Women's Division

That Had to be God

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 10:08:00 EST

I am glad we serve a God who is able to do things better, wiser, and more completely than we can. God demonstrated this to me recently on two separate occasions.

First, a man that comes to Haven of Rest for lunch struck up a conversation with me similar to many previous talks we have had in the past. He was trying to convince himself that God could not be who the Bible claims because there are too many unexplained things, and if he cannot understand it all than it cannot be true. I find peace in the notion that the mystery that comes with God is for our benefit. It makes us seek. It shows us that the God we serve is bigger than what our minds can comprehend. The mystery of God is much too big than mere man’s mind can grasp. Yet He loves us, and has revealed Himself to us.

This same man recently was hospitalized. Staff visited him and prayed with him. He was quick to ask for our prayers, and admitted after he was released that the prayers were a turning point for him as he recovered. God was able to intervene in his life in a way that this man did not see coming and quickly his doubts turned to belief. So often, God uses our circumstances to do just that.

Another man recently moved out from our resident program. He had many barriers to housing, employment, and self sufficiency. He was given instruction, tasks and encouragement to press forward despite was seemed like overwhelming odds. Today we praise God that He provided not only employment for the man, but an employment situation in which his room and board were covered too! God interceded in a way that none of us saw coming. Truly, we must sit back and say, “That had to be God because there was no other way!”

Jim Cole
Director of Men’s Division

Dressing Up For Easter

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 16:19:06 EST

I remember Easter time when I was growing up in Akron, Ohio. My mom and dad would take the five of us shopping at Sears for the perfect outfits to wear to church on Easter Sunday. Oh, my goodness, it’s just like yesterday! My brothers would always get a nice suit and all of us girls would get dresses in colors of blue, pink and lavender. I always got lavender; this is one of my favorite colors. I’ve always loved the many shades of purple.

When I walk into my church and saw the purple cloth draped over the cross, my first thought was ‘how beautiful’. To me this is a reminder of the price Christ paid on the cross for my sins. A reminder of an opportunity to make changes in my life! Changes to how I think, how I act, how I speak, and to what I value in my life.

When a person comes to Haven of Rest, worried about a safe place to sleep and food to eat, their thoughts are not on a trip to Sears but on survival and change. They want to change their lives. With the same compassion and love that Jesus gives to me to to help me make changes in my life. I can demonstrate to the men women and children who walk through our doors every day. What a wonder opportunity to share the Gospel and fulfill His will in our lives!

Blessings to all this Easter.

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

�Taking time to listen�

(Rose Rose) — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 10:37:59 EST

Much of the work I do is from an office or “out on the road,” raising awareness about the wonderful resources Haven of Rest offers to those in great need, and thanking our friends and supporters. I carve out times when I can listen to a client or a resident tell their story about how they came to Haven of Rest with their broken dreams, their fears, their heavy hearts, their addictions, and learned that Haven of Rest loves and cares for them and will work with them to put their lives on a better path. It reminds me of why I love being here – to witness renewed hope and changed lives.

I have worked for Haven of Rest almost 26 years in various capacities and have seen the power of God changing lives, attitudes, habits, and directions of lost and discouraged individuals. It’s absolutely thrilling to see how our Lord brings people, churches, organizations, businesses and schools together through this ministry to provide blessings, peace and renewed hope to those living in turmoil. I think of the individuals that came here in the most desperate, heart-wrenching situations who are now on our staff and minister to those who think they are without hope. What awesome testimonies! Yes, miracles happen here, and I’m so blessed to witness it.

Haven of Rest’s 68th Anniversary banquet will be held on Friday evening, April 29th. It will be a privilege to share in the celebration that so many lives have been impacted for eternity because people care and support this work!

Rose Rose,

Community Relations Coordinator

Stopping By to Say Hello

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 13:59:03 EST

Many people come through our doors and many leave, but it is a rare treat to have someone come back and share with us how they are doing. However, such was the case last week when two women who stayed with us last year stopped by my office at the exact same time to say “Hi”. One of the women, who I will call Sarah, has two beautiful girls who she brought by so we could see how much they are growing! Sarah works hard to provide for herself and her girls and shared how God uses people around her to meet those needs she is unable to meet on her own. Lisa (not her real name) came by at the exact same time!! She, too, wanted us to know that although times are hard, she is doing well! It was encouraging to hear from “Sarah” and “Lisa”.

The two ladies who visited me last week represent a small percentage of the women and children whose journey have brought them to Harvest Home. Each year, families seek help and often I wonder where would they turn to if they didn't have any family or friends for support? What if Harvest Home did not exist, would they have somewhere to go? When God directed Rev. CC Thomas many years ago to offer a warm meal and bed to the homeless, little did he know how God was going to bless and multiply the ministry. The fruit of the ministry is evident in the lives of the women and men who come through the doors of the mission. God is making a difference in their lives and through your financial support, prayers, and volunteer hours, you are too.

Aimee
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

Sometimes Things Work Out Better Than We Planned

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 15:48:07 EST

Have you ever looked forward to a very special vacation? This past January, due to the kindness of others, I had a week’s vacation in Orlando, Florida. The day of departure started off peacefully. The flight didn’t leave until 1:30 pm so I had a relaxing morning packing and doing other small things to prepare for the trip. We left the house around 11:00 am, giving us plenty of time to drive to the airport, park, take a van to check in, and go through security. Everything planned out just the way it should work.

Then life happened. On the way there, traffic was at a standstill due to a very bad car accident. As the minutes ticked by I became more and more anxious. “Oh, no! I am going to miss the flight. I will be stuck at the airport all day waiting for another one. And it won’t be a direct flight and by the time we get to Florida it will be night and my first day of vacation has gone up in smoke”. All the worrying was unnecessary and unproductive. Things worked out better than expected, even though it wasn’t the way we planned.

Sometimes the moms staying at Harvest Home become anxious because things didn’t work out as they planned and now they are living in a shelter. Yes, being in a shelter is much more serious than missing a flight, but the point is, that things can still work out for them. They may see living in a shelter as a setback and understandably so. However, staying at Harvest Home gives a woman the opportunity to have her basic needs met. She is able to connect with rehabilitation and mental health services while receiving the spiritual support and encouragement she needs to begin again. Who knows- things may even work out better than her original plans.

Yvette McMillan
Director of Women’s Division

Yielding

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 14:57:23 EST

One of the joys that I am blessed with each month is giving the Evening Chapel message at Haven of Rest. Every night we share a basic gospel message to give hope and encouragement to our clients..

We help people coming to us in need with meals, clothing and shelter. Perhaps, even more important, we give them hope through the word of God. Jesus Christ is the one who really changes hearts and lives. We are blessed to receive the privilege of sharing God’s message of hope with those struggling in life.

The Lord inspired me to write the following poem that I then shared after giving a brief scripture passage. It is my hope that it will be an encouragement to you also during these very difficult days

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

YIELDING
Michael Solosky
February 9, 2011

If your life is burdened and going bad,
Then lean on Jesus You won’t be so sad.

The joy of the Lord is your strength we know.
It is He who will go to any length to show

How quickly He can rescue and help if you’ll ask.
Trust in The Lord and then you can bask

In the love of God as He nurtures you.
He makes all the difference with a whole new view.

A different perspective you will soon get,
Cause Jesus changes you if you’ll just let

Him into your heart, He is such a shield,
A protection from evil if you’ll just yield.

To Him He asks that you give control.
You’ll never regret His peace in your soul.

Peace like you’ve never known before.
He is the master of opening the closed door.

The door that’s been stuck so hard in the past,
He is the one who will get you help fast.

Oh Jesus, Oh Jesus, ask Him into your life.
He wants to eliminate all of the strife.

The unpleasant worries and all of the fears,
You’ll wonder why it took so many years.

To trust in the Lord for He will never fail.
Life’s victory is yours if you will only hail

To King Jesus Christ, the Holy One,
Only He can make a difference as the Son.

Remember Simon Peter who failed so much.
He kept going back to the Master for such,

As was needed to live a holy life,
No matter how full of fear-filling strife.

Peter consistently messed up a lot
But Jesus forgave each time he sought

Forgiveness for His many hurtful sins.
If you ask Jesus He will help you begin.

Tonight’s a new start for those who will seek
The King Jesus who will give you a peak

Of how happy you’ll be in heaven above,
With the Master’s forgiveness and all of His love.

So now it’s your decision to yield or not.
It’s His love that you have unknowingly sought.

So give him your heart and all of your soul,
Give Him your will and all of you whole

The whole bunch of hurts that have hindered you.
You will be amazed at just how He can renew.

He’ll take the scars and wounds that have held you back.
He’ll change them all and you will never lack.

For He will supply your every need,
He loves you so much that He was willing to bleed.

He gave all His blood as a sacrifice,
To redeem your soul for eternal life.

He wants you. He loves you. He is calling your soul.
Without Him you will never really be whole.

You will never know what a life you can lead.
Without Him you’ll continue to be deceived.

For Satan is so good at leading astray,
There’s really only one single way.

And that is to seek God’s will in your life.
Ask Him into you’re heart and receive eternal life.

The life that fills your soul with His peace,
Because your sins have all been released.

For into the blood of the Lamb they will go,
They’ll come out white as wool, white as snow!

So now it’s your choice, which way will it be?
Your way leads to Hell, His to eternity.

Touching Hearts

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 11:32:49 EST

At Haven of Rest, we believe every moment spent encouraging a person helps to plant seeds for future growth and development. On February 16, Haven of Rest had its nineteenth annual “African American History Celebration”; and what a celebration it was. The theme was ‘Blessed Assurance.’

As special events coordinator, I was able to seek the speaker for the program and as I prayed, God placed Pastor Curtis Minter from Shiloh Baptist Church on my heart. It’s amazing how God can speak into your spirit and if you are tuned into listening for His voice, how He will bless abundantly, above anything you could ever think or ask—and that’s exactly what we received.

It was a time for all of those who visited the mission to come together, receive a great message, and embrace the future hope we as believers have in Christ. We have the ‘Blessed Assurance’ of knowing that as long as you have Jesus, there is Hope.

Pastor Minter opened by asking what does this all mean? And from the book of Romans he gave us three clear definitions:
1- That God has a clear motive! Through our trials and tests there is Victory in God who loves us.
2- Commitment! Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ.
3- A Mandate! He will never leave us alone.
I believe the seed was planted and hopefully there was enough interest that many will come back again and again.

As I sat at the table during lunch I thanked God for each person who found it beneficial to attend and for the forty some persons who went to the altar and gave their lives to Christ. Fanny Crosby’s song came into my head—“blessed assurance…a foretaste of glory divine.” Each face, with excitement and curiosity, and the personal stories they carried with them was a foretaste of what God has in store for us. What a wonderful reminder– amazing things happen when we take a step forward in faith and find assurance to spread the good news! This was just a sampling—a foretaste of something wonderful—of what God has in store for the mission in the years ahead.

Thanks again to all of you who helped to make our 19th African American History Celebration’ a blessing to others—to all the volunteers that worked hard—that when our guests came, they were received with warm Haven of Rest hospitality.

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

Two are Better than One

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:44:46 EST

Ecclesiastes 4:9,10,12 "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!...Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."

I am amazed at the power of friendship in action. Many times the men who are come through are doors are without true friends and community. Street life, just getting by, and fighting to survive can leave a man very hard, distrusting and cynical. We often are some of the only friends they can claim. However, what sometimes is forgotten is that we who reach out and minister, also should not be alone. Haven of Rest is hosting our annual Multi District Training Institute this week. As I reflect on years past and look forward to this year, I smile. A couple of years ago while giving a tour to a group of men from various parts of the country who came for the training, a funny conversation developed. It started by showing the resident rooms. One man commented, "Wow, your guys have their own rooms!" another man said "Wow, your rooms have locks!" and a final man said, "Wow, your rooms have doors!" Each rescue mission throughout the country is a little different and has different levels of resources, but the work is the same. Many times the work can seem overwhelming, and we grow weary. Retired directors of Haven of Rest, Rev. Thomas and Rev. Walker, have both said through the years, "We may grow tired in the work, but not of the work." This is a time of refreshing for many who labor daily to minister to those who are hurting and homeless. We fellowship, encourage one another, and are sharpened in ministry. It is a time to remember that we are not alone, nor should we be. What a blessing that we can be an encouragement to one another, and Praise God that he has promised to never leave us, nor forsake us!

Jim Cole
Director, Men's Division

Meet Our New Intern

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 16:22:47 EST

Greetings; my name is Jordan Repko and I am currently interning for Haven of Rest through my undergraduate education at Kent State University. I am finishing my senior year with my study of nonprofit management and leadership. It is my desire to become employed for a nonprofit organization whose mission it is to help clients gain stability in their lives through faith in Jesus Christ.

I first learned about the mission during my youth and was immediately attracted to the services they provided. Over the course of my volunteer work at Haven of Rest, I have fallen in love with the work that I am doing for God. I consider myself very lucky to be receiving this invaluable experience here and am prayerful that I would be able to continue my involvement with the mission for years to come.

I want to thank all of you for your involvement with the mission and for your generous donations to support this worthy cause. Haven of Rest is a true testament of what great things God’s children can do when we all work together to bring glory to our holy father. I am grateful for this opportunity to share with you a little about myself. Finally, I would personally appreciate your prayers as well as for all the loving hands that work to bring glory to God here at the mission. Please pray that God would enable us to serve Him well with our work at Haven of Rest Ministries. God Bless.

Jordan Repko,
Development Intern

Measuring Success

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 10:11:36 EST

Everyone has a different way of measuring “success”. Often the first thing that comes to our mind when we think of success is attributed to wealth or a prestigious career. Our society tends to define success in this way. Some may look at an individual’s accomplished goals or special talent and call that person “successful.” I am not saying that I wouldn’t think the same thing, but recently God has been challenging my concept of what is successful.

Joshua 1:8 is one of my favorite verses. The Lord was speaking to Joshua and told him: “Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful” (NIV, emphasis mine). God measures our success, by how well we meditate and apply His Word to our lives.

This is what we teach the women that come to Harvest Home. They can change everything on the outside, their environment, circumstance, and so on, but true success comes with applying God’s Word and allowing it to change the inside. This is what I remind myself of this as well. Success is not only getting a job or securing housing, though these are necessities. Success is more than that. It may be overcoming an addiction, learning new coping skills, praying and depending on God for guidance, growing patience with their children, learning to hug and be hugged, learning how to smile, learning how to give, and learning to make wise decisions for themselves and their family, and the list can go on and on. If you come to Harvest Home you will see these “successes” day in and day out.

When I look at my life, I want to measure “success” not by what the world says is successful, but like Joshua, meditating day and night on God’s Word so it may penetrate my mind and heart, leading me to a changed life. I pray this for the ladies coming to Harvest Home as well. Having a heart open and soft to God’s Word and His leading is the most successful thing we can do.

Aimee Radebaugh
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

Freedom in God's Will

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 09:34:43 EST

Freedom in God’s will. What a refreshing thought! My life long adventure in ministry (not always in a Christian environment) has taken me many places over the past years, and I have labored in many different kinds of vineyards. Whether through church outreaches, my employment in local and county government, education, business, and even the small ministry I started over thirty years ago, the Lord has been there with me. He has guided and directed my steps and I believe my journey down these various paths has been part of His will for my life.

My ministry in each of these very different venues has been incredible and rewarding–though the environment may not have always been a receptive one – the experience and knowledge gained has resulted in depth of faith and greater perception and perspective.

When I first came to Haven of Rest Ministries, I knew nothing about rescue work or the powerful history of rescue in this country and abroad. I also knew nothing about serving homeless people, but the prospect of helping the downtrodden and those I have always felt an affinity with was exciting–and to actually be paid for doing work I love was icing on the cake. Ministry is hard work and many times very disheartening. People disappoint you. But it has also been exhilarating as well as challenging.

Though my future path may be unknown to me, each vineyard is His. I believe God will continue to direct me in the way He would have me go. When we labor in His will, it is good to know that wherever we are we have the joy of being free.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

Dignity

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 13:37:27 EST

Just today I had the privilege and pleasure of giving a tour of Haven of Rest to a lady who is already involved with the ministry but wanted to see firsthand how we help people. We will call her Debra.

Debra is a very caring and compassionate as a person. She is highly intelligent and educated and is the mother of two adult children. Because of her education, work and life experience, she asked some wonderful questions about what it is that we do and why we do it. She focused on the care of people and how the clients’ needs are met. She is like many other people whom I have taken on tours in that she commented about how clean and attractive the facilities are.

At the conclusion of the tour we were returning to the Mission building from our Client Services Center. As we were discussing what she had just seen, she said, “Haven of Rest is a wonderful ministry. You treat all people with dignity.”

We strive in every way possible to let people know that no matter who they are or how humble their station in life, they matter. They have worth and they are valuable because they are created in God’s image. They might be homeless but they are still somebody in our eyes. The staff treats them with the love and compassion of Jesus Christ.

How do we show people they have worth? From how beautiful and clean the buildings are kept to how our staff treats them with compassion and care. Because we pick up litter and strive to keep the floors looking nice by sweeping and mopping several times a day, especially in this snowy and sloppy weather, also sends that message.

A few years ago, a licensed architect who is responsible for the design, care and maintenance of the buildings and grounds of a major university said to me during our tour, “Why, even the corners of the hallways are clean.” With as sharp and critical his trained eye is, that was quite a compliment.

The quality of the meals and clothing our clients receive all add to their dignity. Lastly, the fact that we have wonderful lighting in our buildings also sends a message of worth.

In my opinion and Debra’s, the ministry of Haven of Rest is synonymous with dignity. Dignity is at the very heart of everything that we do.

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

Nineteen Years Later

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 10:28:05 EST

As we approach the 32nd anniversary of Harvest Home shelter for homeless women and children, I can't help but remember my first visit to Haven of Rest. My church at that time, Jubilee Temple, was taking a tour of the ministry. I knew nothing about rescue work and did not realize there were even homeless people in Akron. The experience was a real eye-opener.

I remember our tour guide talking about Harvest Home and saying sometimes the women can be more difficult to work with than the men. The Lord spoke to my heart and said, "That's where you will be". Six years later I received a call from Eileen Thomas, the Director of Harvest Home. She asked me if I would be interested in applying for a receptionist position that was open.

Applying for this position was a real leap of faith, because secretarial work is not my gift. However, I remembered what the Lord had impressed upon me years earlier and I interviewed for the job. I was hired and 19 years later, here I am still ministering to hurting women and children. Over the years I have seen the Lord touch and change the lives of countless women. It can be difficult and demanding work, but more importantly it is rewarding work...because it is His work.

Yvette McMillan, LSW, MNO
Director of the Women's Division

Christmas Day

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 15:08:05 EST

Working at the mission on Christmas day usually will provide the opportunity for several interesting conversations with the men staying here for emergency shelter. For many this may be the one time of the year their families decide to let them stay for a while, but for others this is a truly lonely day in which they are reminded of the strained or nonexistent relationships with family and friends. The bus lines are not running, the stores are closed and there is little to do other than what we provide for the men. We become family to the men.

One conversation this Christmas was with a gentleman who was particularly reflective. He described to me how his marriage fell apart, and how since he has traveled from city to city staying in shelters. Despite the discouraging nature of the story, he was in a good mood and happy to talk. He wanted to make a particular point to me, which I found encouraging. He went on to tell me that he has stayed in city shelters, in and out of jail, halfway houses, and Christian ministries. Of all those settings, he emphatically stated that, although he would rather not be in this situation at all, by far he would most prefer to stay at a Christian place. It was in the Christian facilities he felt most safe, loved, and respected. He then finished the conversation with a smile and said, “In fact it was right here that I gave my heart to Christ.”

This Christmas morning, I was reminded that Christ truly does make the difference in our hearts, lives, eternity, and in our interactions with others. I’m glad that this man was able to see a consistent witness from Christians that made them stand apart from the world and demonstrate the love, compassion, and respect that led this man to the foot of the cross.

Matthew 5:16 “In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.”

Jim Cole
Director, Men's Division

The True Meaning of Christmas

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Mon, 13 Dec 2010 15:40:15 EST

On first Saturday of December, Haven of Rest Ministries held its annual ‘Happy Birthday Jesus’ Party. With hundreds of children we celebrated the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Clowns, a juggler, and a special black light puppet show provided entertainment and laughter for the children sharing with them the true meaning of Christmas. After the program all children between the ages of newborn and twelve received a stocking full of candy and a wrapped Christmas present. This year’s party was filled to capacity, and we gave away toys to over 430 children!

This year’s party hit me in a very personal way, I was responsible for video recording the event, and that gave me the opportunity to see it from a whole new perspective. I arrived at the mission about three hours early to start recording, and you could just feel the energy in the air. The different volunteer groups were putting up decorations, getting the gifts set out, and the puppet ministry was rehearsing. I interviewed different people to get their take on the party, and a better understanding of what motivated them to volunteer.

Once the families started to arrive, I saw the excitement of the kids. It was then that the reality of what Christmas is all about hit me. The true meaning of Christmas is giving of ourselves to others. It’s about giving to the poor, the hungry, and the hurting. We are all poor, hungry, or hurting in some way and we are the ones God gave His son to. The best way for us to celebrate His birth, and show our appreciation for what He gave us, is to give of ourselves.

Daren Brake
Development Assistant

Richard shares from the heart

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 14:40:13 EST

Joyous Season

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 16:16:14 EST

With the Thanksgiving holiday over, we head full throttle into Christmas. At least that�s how it feels at Harvest Home! We are about to enter one of the busiest times of the year. We have several Christmas parties planned, gifts being collected and donated for Happy Birthday Jesus Party, and decorations will soon be sparkling throughout the house. It�s interesting how so much happens in this 30-day period.

The staff at Harvest Home looks forward to this season because they know that this is a very special time for our mothers and children. For many, this holiday season will be a time when their families will receive the outpouring of love from the staff of Haven of Rest Ministries and the community. We also know that this can be a difficult time for the women. No one wants to be in a shelter at Christmas. Though joy can overflow in the hearts of those we serve when they know they are loved and cared for, the sadness of where they are in life can be equally overwhelming.

At Christmas we celebrate the birth of our Savior. His birth was not in a hospital or even a warm, cozy home. He was born in a cold, damp stable. Truly our Lord was born in the last possible place a mother would want to have her child. I am sure Mary would have chosen anywhere else possible, but that was not an option. Joseph, Mary, and Jesus were homeless in Bethlehem.

Often the women coming to Harvest Home are without options as well. It�s not their choice to be at Harvest Home, but it is their only option. Yet, finding yourself homeless does not mean that hope, joy, and love do not exist in such a situation. Harvest Home is a temporary home, and within its walls, safety, love, joy, and hope can be experienced. Not just because the staff share love, but also because the Lord of Eternity lives in the hearts of the staff. Because Christ is in all that we do, we proclaim the good news of Jesus birth, especially at Christmas.

Joseph and Mary experienced the wonderful joy of receiving their Savior, though just a babe, despite their circumstances. The families at Harvest Home too receive the joy of hearing about and experiencing the joy of a Savior, despite their circumstances, and for many that joy is worth being in a shelter�for only a season.

Aimee Radebaugh
Asst. to the Director, Harvest Home

It's About Positioning

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 22 Nov 2010 14:02:45 EST

Recently my husband and I took our seven-year-old grandson, Donovan, on the Tow Path. Our purpose was two-fold. First, it was a great place for him to ride his bike without worrying about car traffic. Although speeding bikers presented a challenge for him as he tried to maneuver, most were sensitive to his inexperience. Secondly, it gave him an opportunity to encounter history in a very personal way. The natural setting of the locks next to the Ohio Canal and The Carriage House museum with all of its artifacts provided an enjoyable lesson in history.

While making the six-mile trek, I thought about how that area must have looked during the times of canal travel. How busy it must have been with boats coming up the canal and the locks raising or lowering the water to help make passage possible. Life was very different in those days-but as much as things change, they remain the same.

People needed help to maneuver through life then and people need help now. For those of us who truly have a heart to serve ministry is not about status or personal preferences. It’s about positioning-allowing the Lord’s will to be done. Allowing Him to place us in position for service. His appointed place at His appointed time in order to help bring relief to hurting people. At Haven of Rest, that relief comes by offering hope through Christ and help through programs and service.

Yvonne Brake, MNO
Director of Development

MISPERCEPTIONS

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 09:32:35 EST

Many, people jump to conclusions with minimum knowledge. I certainly have done so in my lifetime. Many conclusions are the result of misperceptions. Let me share with you what I mean.

A couple weeks ago I was at a Volunteer Fair at a local college. The students came by each booth and asked questions of the various representatives, all from local non-profits looking for help. Up walks this young man, a student. He says, “So you are with Haven of Rest. Let me tell you, they are a wonderful organization. I stayed there a few years ago when I was having a tough time and you guys helped me get back on my feet. Thanks for what you did for me.” Here he is, now a college student looking to further his education and improve himself. That was certainly not the background I would have expected describing a college student’s recent past.

Then, a week or so later I got a call and this man came in wanting to help us raise donations for the Haven of Rest. He drove up in a very expensive car. He now owns his own business. He was nice enough to share with me about his past. He proceeded to tell me, “I stayed at the Haven of Rest as a client many years ago. You guys do good work. Now I want to give back to you by having my business help raise some donations for the Haven of Rest as a way of saying thanks for the time when you were there for me.” Certainly being homeless is not a typical background that I would ever think of for a successful business owner.

When you see the people who are homeless, please don’t think they have no future because of their current life circumstances. Here are two current examples as a reminder to us that with God’s help anything is possible. I hope we will all remember that!

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

Amazing Transformation

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 12:02:34 EST

My son will be six months old this week. I am continually amazed at the transformation his little body is going through. As a new parent, I'm excited to see each new milestone that he reaches. When he masters a movement or skill that others may view as insignificant, my wife and I rejoice and celebrate. Over time it becomes almost hard to imagine him any other way than what he's becoming. It may take a glimpse of another tiny new baby to remind us that our son is not that little anymore.

I find this to be true with the men we work with at Haven of Rest as well, only the transformation they go through is of a different sort than my son’s. We recently held a graduation ceremony for two men who have completed our entire discipleship program. Each of them has had milestones in their time at the mission. We have been blessed to be able to walk with them, guide them, and rejoice each step along the way. The ceremony provides a great opportunity to celebrate, look back, and remember that these men are not the same men they were when they arrived. Christ is truly doing a work of transformation in them. In fact, it is almost hard to imagine them any other way than what they're becoming.

Jim Cole
Director, Men's Division

There has Been a Change of Plans

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 10:46:24 EST

If you’re like me, you already know where you are planning to spend Thanksgiving. Usually, my husband and I along with our families plan a big feast with all the traditional holiday dishes, complete with the always-popular kids table. However this year, when Thanksgiving falls on our wedding anniversary, we were planning to keep it simple with just a nice dinner with our immediate family. But for some reason God had other plans for us. Instead of celebrating at home, we will celebrate our Thanksgiving /anniversary at Haven of Rest this season. Around our table, there will be poor and homeless men, women, and children — out of a job, out of money, and some struggling with addictions.

Thanksgiving is a time for us all to pause and be grateful for all that we have. It is also a time when we think of those less fortunate than ourselves and do what we can to help — especially this year, in these tough and unpredictable times.

While I was growing up, Thanksgiving was one of the best days of the year for me. I couldn’t wait to see my grandmother, aunts, uncles, and cousins. We’d enjoy great food, board games, laughs, and lots of love. So when my husband and I spend the day celebrating Thanksgiving at Haven of Rest Ministries, that’s how I want every man, woman, and child to feel. I would like to see everyone walk away with memories and warm feelings they’ll never forget.

God has given me many reasons to be thankful in 2010, and seeing other’s happy is at the top of my list.

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

Behavior Modification or Gospel Transformation?

(Jason Hubbard) — Mon, 18 Oct 2010 11:43:31 EST

Over the course of the last several years I have had the privilege of ministering to a number of men on our Long-term Residential Program who are hurting. Generally speaking these men come to us in a state of brokenness, longing for a new life. While on the surface this may appear to be a good thing, it doesn’t take long to discover that many of these men are looking more for sin management than for radical life transformation.
Many of our men have been conditioned by the “Recovery Culture” of AA and NA to believe that their main problems can be solved with “new people, places, and things.” They have been taught to believe “once an addict/alcoholic always an addict/alcoholic.” While there is a certain degree of truth in these statements, they fail to address the central issue that affects every single one of us, namely sin.
At its very root every addiction is sin. Counselor Ed Welch writes, “Addiction is a voluntary enslavement to a self selected idol.” Every form of idolatry is a sin against God. It is choosing to worship the created instead of the Creator.
Our primary goal for the men on our long-term program is for them to come to know and trust in Jesus Christ. We want our men and women to understand that Christ died for our sins to reconcile us to God and to redeem us from our former lifestyles (Titus 2:11-14). We want our men and women to know that they are indeed new creations in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17).
It is our goal to then teach our men how to live out that new life by demonstrating to them, from Scripture, how God has made them new. This newness includes:

New master (1 John 4:4)
New identity (Colossians 3:9-10)
New mind (1 Peter.2:2, Romans12:2)
New desires (Galatians 5:16-17)
New emotions (1 John 4:7)
New community (1 John 1:3)
New power (Romans 8:12-15)
New freedom (Romans 6:6)
New life (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)

True, change is not easy. In fact true change can only take place when the pain of remaining the same outweighs the pain of change. For many of our men this is a difficult and emotional season of their lives. I would ask that you would pray for them and for those of us who seek to minister to them. Please pray that we would see Gospel transformation in the lives of the men whom God has entrusted to us as they learn to submit themselves to God and allow Him to truly transform their lives.

Jason Hubbard,
Chaplain’s Assistant

A Clean and CheerfulI Place

(Rose Rose) — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 13:12:33 EST

I love giving tours of Haven of Rest Ministries. Even after 25 years of working here, it’s still exciting. As I walk through the various areas and explain our programs and services, I’m again reminded of how men, women and children are impacted by the help they receive here. Not only are immediate needs such as a hot meal, clothing, or a place to sleep met, but they are given the tools they need to get back on their feet and turn their lives around. Oh, there are so many absolutely wonderful testimonies!

Sometimes a resident of our program will eagerly tell their story to our tourists, because they are now filled with renewed hope for their future. In fact, we occasionally have one of our staff members that came through our program years prior, enthusiastically share how their lives were restored through Haven of Rest!

One of the comments I hear almost always is, “This place is so clean and cheerful!” I love to hear that because the people we serve need a clean and cheerful place to stay. They come in heavy with discouragement, depression, and shame… often feeling totally worthless. By showing them dignity, respect, and the compassion and love of Christ in all we do, they begin to know their lives have purpose and meaning. (I’m reminded of Matthew 25:35–40, because we give our very best, as if we were giving to Jesus himself). And when the individuals we serve begin to understand this, the results can be miraculous!

Rose Rose.
Community Relations Coordinator

Sewing Bags while Sewing Hearts

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 11:34:24 EST

In February Harvest Home began a new class called Lydia’s Purse. Lydia’s Purse is a collaboration between Harvest Home and Maryann’s Designs, Inc. It is a women’s empowerment program that teaches women the skill of sewing and design, as well as providing mentorship and discipleship for spiritual growth. Lydia’s Purse uses recycled high-end fabrics to design and create women’s designer handbags. The women are able to keep the first handbag they make, then additional handbags are made available for purchase. A percentage of the proceeds are given back to Harvest Home to benefit the women who created the handbag as well as women and children staying at Harvest Home.

The class has been a huge success. Women have the opportunity to learn how to sew and design their own Harvest Hope Bag, and they love it! For many it is the first time they created something on their own and they are so proud of what they have accomplished. One woman gushed, “You don’t understand, Aimee! I have never sewn before and I didn’t think I could do this!” With joy she carried around her bag for all to see. When asked where she purchased it she was able to say she made it herself!

Wonderful volunteers spend time with the women to teach sewing and build relationships. The time the women spend sewing is filled with laughter and conversations. Worship music is played and Scripture is read and talked about, so that as women sew, they hear truth and focus their thoughts on above. The motto of Lydia’s Purse is “Sewing Bags while Sewing Hearts…” As the women are sewing they are truly feeling a sense of God’s presence in their lives. They are finding joy and beauty in what they can create, God’s love for them through the relationships they are building, and hope that they can use their gifts and talents in the future.

Aimee Radebaugh,
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

Lost Little Girl

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 11:39:13 EST

Are you a nature lover? Well I am…kinda. I have no desire to go camping. However, I do love the beauty of nature, long walks in wooded parks, standing on the pier and looking out over the ocean during trips to the coast, or just sitting on the porch enjoying the wonders of the evening.

Years ago I would walk through the woods near our home. Often during these walks I felt like a lost little girl - alone and forsaken. But then I would begin to sense the presence of God. For hours I enjoyed the rhythmic sounds of the creek or the chirping of multitudes of birds. Even in the midst of the sounds of nature there was a peaceful calm. A sort of quietness that surrounded me and I found solace there during times of difficulty or loneliness.

I believe some of the people who come to the mission feel lost, forgotten, and perhaps forsaken. Life’s challenges have taken their toll and there seems to be no way to recover. Haven of Rest can be that place of recovery for lost men, women and children a place of solace where broken hearts can heal, and depleted spirits can be renewed.

I treasure the memories of those walks that were such a source of refuge for me as a child, and I now treasure the opportunity to help provide a place of refuge for lost souls who walk through our doors.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

Recipe for Joy

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Wed, 22 Sep 2010 13:47:13 EST

Early in August on a Friday morning, I backed a Mission truck up to the door of a church in suburban Akron. It was about 8:45 a.m. It was the end of a full week of Vacation Bible School for the children, during which they collected canned food for Haven of Rest. They had formed teams and had a competition to see which group could collect the most food. A procession was formed and one by one these young boys and girls brought out the cans of fruits and vegetables and handed them to me to be loaded into the truck. This particular group had collected over 1,000 lbs. of food for the hungry. It was really neat to see the huge smiles and to feel the excitement in the air as they energetically brought their gifts for the poor.

This past June a manufacturing company held an event for the benefit of the Mission. They put a tremendous amount of thought, energy and time into their efforts. The two men, the originators of the idea to hold this fund-raiser, brought in the check and presented it to us as a donation. The men, both middle aged, were just like children on Christmas morning, so excited to share the good news of how much was raised. They had smiles from ear to ear and a wonderful joy that was so obvious.

Why does this joy seem to so consistently permeate these goodwill ambassadors helping those who are hurting? My observation and experience is that they become other-centered instead of self-centered. They direct their thoughts toward helping someone less fortunate. They still have their own problems but their focus has shifted away from themselves. For a while they experience the joy of giving. In my opinion, that’s not a bad recipe for living life!

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

God Didn't Give Us Everything

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 15:51:12 EST

As a little girl growing up in a small town, I had so many dreams for the future. Summer days especially were filled with such hope. I believed that clear blue skies with white fluffy clouds were confirmations of how beautiful life would be. My sister and I would swing for hours gazing at the sky and thinking about how God was going to bless us with the fulfillment of all our dreams.

Well, all my dreams did not come true but God has been a faithful companion for many years. As my sister and I often say to each other, “God didn’t give us everything we wanted but He gave us more than we could have ever imagined.”

One special gift He gave me was the opportunity to minister in His name to women in difficult situations who come to Haven of Rest for assistance. As children they may have dreamt of their future and had a heart bursting with great expectations for the blessings to come. However, the reality of their lives may have dimmed those dreams. God has placed me here to encourage them and to assure them that although things look bleak now, He has a plan and purpose for their lives. He is waiting to do exceedingly abundantly more than they could ever imagine if they would trust Him with their lives.

Yvette McMillan,
Director of Women’s Division

Thankful

(Jeff Kaiser) — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 16:06:31 EST

Coming to work after a wonderful holiday weekend, there are so many things to be thankful for.

I am thankful to the Lord that as an organization we can start the day off with prayer.

I am thankful to the Lord that there are many prayer warriors outside the mission who are praying for the staff and the many needs of the mission.

I am thankful to the many volunteers who give of their time at Haven of Rest. They prepare food, sort clothes, clean, provide transportation, prepare mailings, lead chapel services, spend time with the clients and children at Harvest Home and many other activities that help make this ministry work.

I am thankful today for all the companies, organizations, churches and schools that have partnered with us to help the less fortunate.

I am thankful that we can share the Gospel of Jesus Christ to those who are lost and hopeless, because it is through Christ that change truly happens.

I am thankful that the Lord has given me another day to be used to fulfill His purpose.

I could go on and on because there is so much to be thankful for. What are you thankful for today? Our Heavenly Father does love and care for us. In 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 it says this: “Be joyful always continually, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Jesus Christ.”

To all who partner with us financially, and or through volunteering time and talents, thank you.

Jeff Kaiser
Executive Director elect

God has called me out of my comfort zone

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 11:45:32 EST

I’ve just begun my third year at Haven of Rest Ministries, and I am learning so much. Is it easy, no, but it’s worth it to know that I have been called into a ministry where my love for the Lord has grown greater in areas that I have never know. My compassion for hurting people is stronger, and my willingness to serve is consuming. God has called me out of my comfort zone. This is a whole new life for me. God is drawing me closer to Him, and I feel Him preparing me for the journey.

Being special events coordinator can sometimes be very draining. It’s August and I am worried about Christmas at the mission. Being in outreach, we met the needs of people where they are. It tugs at the heart to know that some children may be disappointed because their parent(s) are unable to purchase gifts for Christmas. Will there be enough toys for the Happy Birthday Jesus Party? Will there be enough African American dolls or other ethnic dolls for gifts to young girls. Will there be enough trucks and games? Often these thoughts cross my mind and then I have to remind myself that God is in control.

Just the other day I was talking to someone about responsibility and life’s challenges. Life is not meant to be a series of challenges that leave us feeling defeated. It’s meant to shape our character. I remember her telling me: “God never gives us more than we can bear.” At first I thought, well, maybe He doesn’t know me that well. It’s not easy to feel that way when you can hear desperation in the voices of people. I look at this new role that God has entrusted me to play and I am thankful that I am beginning to see a new character in me that I have not seen before.

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

Who is My Neighbor?

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:51:34 EST

Remember the days when a mother could send her son next door to borrow a cup of sugar? Or maybe you remember an elderly lady where you grew up who would give candy to the neighborhood kids. During that day and time being a neighbor and being a part of a neighborhood seemed to mean a lot more to people than it does today.

As I thought about this, one of the narratives in the Gospel of Luke came to my mind where the question was asked, Who is my neighbor? This is an interesting question asked of Jesus in Luke chapter 10 and it is out of His answer the Parable of the Good Samaritan comes.

The man that needed help along the Jericho road was someone the Good Samaritan encountered during his journey down the sometimes dusty and dangerous road of life. When he saw the man in need he stopped what he was doing and went to help him. What this has shown me is that the real question is not who is my neighbor, but who can I be a neighbor too?

This is why working at Haven of Rest is such an amazing opportunity and blessing. Everyday the staff here has the privilege of being a neighbor to all of the men, women and children who are hurting that come to the mission. Through it’s Christ-centered outreach of love and compassion, Haven of Rest is a neighbor to the whole community by responding to the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of disadvantaged men, women, and children without regard to their race, color, creed or social standing.

Whether it’s a healthy meal, a warm bed, clothing or encouraging words from the Gospel, Haven of Rest is able to be a neighbor to people who otherwise would not have anyone to turn to.

Daren Brake,
Development Assistant

Volunteers Truly Make a Difference

(Rose Rose) — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 14:10:33 EST

The other day I had an opportunity to sit down and have coffee with one of our intern residents that I will refer to as “Carl.” He was bubbling over with enthusiasm to share how his life and whole perspective had changed since he had come through Haven of Rest’s residential program. He had gained a sense of significance, and was now feeling appreciated and loved.

When Carl first arrived at Haven of Rest, it was quite the opposite. He suffered with depression and anxiety, feeling his life was hopeless. Regret and despair over poor decisions weighed heavily on him. But he now understands just how very valuable he is to God and that his life has purpose and meaning. He is eager to help others who may be feeling what he once did.

Carl also mentioned how the volunteers at Haven of Rest had an impact on him. As a resident, he looked forward to working alongside them in the Foodservice department, for they would share their joy with him about serving the Lord and what it meant to be a follower of Christ. Carl remarked, “They always encouraged me and treated me with dignity and respect – something that I actually found surprising! They accepted me – and I wasn’t used to that! The volunteers showed concern and love, helping me to feel more confident as a person and as a child of God.” He especially looked forward to a group that came in from a Mennonite church. They expressed a special interest in his life’s journey and invited him to some of their church events and a wedding. “They have no idea just how much that meant to me,” said Carl.

Our volunteers are a very special group of people. I wonder if they realize just how much of an impact they have on the lives they touch here through personal contact or the examples they set through God’s love, mercy, grace, word and deed. Their efforts truly make a difference!

Rose Rose,
Community Relations Coordinator

In Spite of Disrespect

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 12:16:35 EST

Part of the struggle in full-time ministry is wondering at times if the effort I am putting in is making any difference at all. It was one of those times when God gave me some real encouragement.

Once a month, I am privileged to give the evening chapel message to our client men here at Haven of Rest. It is always my desire to do my best when doing anything for God. I view that message as His word to us and pray that He will use me to be a conduit for what He would share with the men. These are men who are many times struggling not only with homelessness but also addictions. At times they can be quite calloused and resistant to what is being shared. Many are also discouraged and even depressed. There are others who are rebellious. It is not an easy audience to address.

On one of those evenings, I was giving the message, pouring out my heart to the men. There were some men toward the back of the chapel who were laughing and joking. I stopped, looked at them and said; “This is no laughing matter.” It was frustrating to me to have to stop and deal with their disrespectful behavior and probably detracted from the quality of the message. God, can bless in any setting where His Word is heard.

A few months later one of our resident men, (those on our long-term recovery program) came up to me and said, “You probably don’t remember this, but you gave the evening chapel message on a particular evening and I was here for the first time in my life.” He then mentioned the very night and the message when the men were being disrespectful and I had to stop. He continued, “I had just come from spending a few days in a crack house. I came forward that night and you prayed with me and I gave my life to Jesus Christ.” At this point he got teary eyed and then he continued. “I had a great job earning $70,000 per year. Yet for the past 20 years I have had a cocaine addiction. I’ve been living a double life. When I came forward that night, Jesus delivered me from the addiction. A short while later I got on the resident program here and my life has been changed so dramatically.”

The disrespectful attitude of some did not hinder His Word from touching the life of at least one that night. Thank God for Haven of Rest and the many lives that are transformed through the renewing power of Jesus Christ.

Michael Solosky
Donor Relations Coordinator

My Father's Eyes

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 12:53:54 EST

What does it mean to be a father? As a little girl I remember waiting with anticipation for my dad to come home from the steel mill. He worked three different rotating shifts. The morning: seven to three. The afternoon shift: three to eleven. The evening shift: eleven to seven.

He seemed to work the morning shift more during the summer. My twin sister and I would be outside playing kickball or steel the caps or lost in a world of our imagination and we would hear his car drive up. No matter what we were doing, we would take off running calling to him, �Daddy, Daddy, Daddy�! I don�t know why seeing him drive up brought us such joy, but it did. Our joy did not wane even though my dad was somewhat emotionally disconnected from us. However, he always seemed happy to see us running to him. He�d smile, pick us up and give us a nickel for a Popsicle. Although he loved us and we loved him, I never felt a sense of security with him. Security and unconditional love was something my mother provided.

It�s good to know that for those of us whose fathers may not have been all we would have liked, or may not have been there at all; there is a Father who loves us regardless of our shortcomings and failures. A Father who never runs out of time to listen, is never impatient, or uncaring or �disconnected.� That�s the Father we share with the men and women who come to Haven of Rest. We want them to know the security of a Father�s love and the hope they have in Him for a fresh start and new life.

My father is in a nursing home now unable to walk or speak, but in his eyes I see the memories of all those hot, summer afternoons and I hear the shrieks of joy from my sister and I as he tossed us in the air and caught us in his arms. He once told us he did the best he could as a father, and I believe him. Whatever was lacking in my dad I know is available through my heavenly Father. In my dad�s eyes are memories of yesterday, but in the �eyes� of my heavenly Father is the calm assurance of eternal life through His Son Jesus Christ, and I feel very secure.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

Where is God When it Hurts

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 12:59:36 EST

Yesterday a woman who had stayed at Harvest Home many years ago came to visit me..
This wasn’t her first visit since moving out. Every year or two she stops by to let us know how she is doing. She tells us about her job, updates us concerning her children and lets us know how things are going at her church. Talking with her reminded me of conversations I’ve had with family members.

So often the news from her is good and uplifting. However this time it wasn’t. She is struggling spiritually. She is wondering where God is in all that has happened recently. She hasn’t been able to work due to an injury so she hasn’t paid her rent and is facing an eviction. She came by to ask, if necessary, could she return to Harvest Home. It’s heartbreaking to think she may become homeless and need to return, but it is good to know she views us as a spiritual support system. She needs women around her who can help her sort things out and encourage her in her relationship with the Lord.

However, as sisters in Christ, we are also glad to be of assistance during difficult times. We count it a blessing to pray for a woman in need of comforting and to provide for her when she is unable to provide for herself. This, too, kind of reminds me of family.

Yvette McMillan,
Women’s Division Director

When Your Test Becomes Your Testimony

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 14:27:00 EST

Today is my birthday. It would only be natural to think about celebrating. God has given me another year of life where He has again lavished His grace upon me and my family. However, my birthday is not the only reason I have been thinking about celebrating.

Almost a year ago my wife went to the doctor for what we thought was an ulcer on her tongue. Instead we found out that my wife had a rare tongue cancer called Squamous Cell Carcinoma. She completed all of her treatments this past February and has begun the healing process. However, after a routine PET Scan the doctors discovered a small mass on her thyroid. There was some concern about what the mass might be so additional tests were ordered. After a semi-anxious week, Friday we received the great news that the tests were negative. Talk about your reasons to celebrate!

This past year has been difficult but even in the midst of the difficulty we can celebrate the fact that God is still in control and is very well aware of our circumstances. We celebrate His precious promise to never leave us or forsake us.

Recently, we had great cause to celebrate in the men’s ministry as well. One of our men received his certificate for his GED and later that week he and another resident completed the final portion of our program called Career Development. Haven of Rest now employs one of these men, while the other is actively seeking employment. Yet another man completed our morning Life Application Bible Study. For some these may seem like minor accomplishments, but we see them as monumental milestones that deserve to be celebrated.

As great as these reasons are for celebrating, the best reason is the eternal difference God is making in the lives of men and women who receive our services. God has used this ministry to lead a people to make decisions for Christ—I know I am one of them. In a similar manner one of the men now on our program came to know of Jesus and His life transforming grace while here at Haven of Rest. In Luke 15 we are told that the angels in heaven celebrate and rejoice when “one sinner repents.”

Those of us who are on staff here at the mission are so thankful that we get to celebrate what God is doing; but, we also say thank you and celebrate you for your partnership in this ministry.

Jason Hubbard
Chaplain’s Assistant

All Things are Possible with God

(Jeff Kaiser) — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 11:07:16 EST

A man who is a Vietnam Vet and has struggled with alcohol a long time has been coming to the mission for many years. When he is sober he is the kindest man out there. He has a big heart, is very sensitive, loves to talk about the Lord and interacts with the staff during devotions. He is very likeable and often he has shared about his struggles and the battles he deals with on a daily basis. It’s been easy for the men’s division staff to build a relationship with him. However, the alcohol addiction is still there and he struggles with letting his past go and learning to trust in the Lord.

Today was not a good day for this man. When he came in for breakfast, he was not doing well because he had been out all night drinking. Drinking turns him into a different type of person. He becomes angry and agitated. He was talking to himself, unhappy with what he had done the night before. His eyes were blood shot from lack of sleep and the smell of alcohol was all over him. I asked him how he was doing. He said nothing and could not look at me. Then he began to cry.

Please pray for this man and so many others like him who come to the mission. They struggle with addiction. They are homeless, lack direction, and are lost. Our goal is to restore hope in the lives of these men through Jesus Christ. In Mark 10:26-27, the disciples were asking Jesus who could be saved and Jesus answered “with man it is impossible but not with God; all things are possible with God.”

Over and over again we have seen many lives transformed by the power of God. These hurting men are important to Him, and we are here to offer them Hope in His name. What a blessing!

Jeff Kaiser
Director of the Men’s Division
Executive Director Elect

Our Greatest Impact

dbrake@havenofrest.org (Daren Brake) — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 14:33:47 EST

The other day I was blown away by the students of Tallmadge Middle School and the level of compassion they have for the people we serve at Haven of Rest. These students are amazing and through their own creative efforts presented Jan Pluck, volunteer coordinator, and myself with a check for over $2100 to Haven of Rest.

When we arrived at the school to pick up the check, you could feel the students’ enthusiasm in the air. Teachers and students from three different classes were proud of their combined efforts and at the same time excited about the difference they were making with their gift-raised from individuals and businesses in the community and through ticket sales from their Student vs. Staff basketball game. The caring hearts of Tallmadge Middle School’s faculty, staff, and parents ignited their passion.

Life is so much more than what we can get. In fact, our greatest impact will come from what we are able to give during our lives. The students of Tallmadge Middle School have demonstrated this important life lesson very early in their lives, and that is what we are recognizing!

Daren Brake,

Development Assistant

A Blessed and Exciting Journey

(Rose Rose) — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 11:41:02 EST

Twenty-five years! That�s how long I�ve served on the staff of Haven of Rest Ministries! It has been a blessed and exciting journey.

I came to Haven of Rest initially as a volunteer in the Foodservice Department. In some ways, Haven of Rest was very different then � smaller, simpler, and with fewer programs. I saw how the Lord was using this ministry in mighty ways and how He had His hand of blessing upon it. Haven of Rest continued to grow as it reached out to hundreds of men, women and children who seemed to have lost all hope, and lives were being changed. Though the ministry is much larger now, its core values have never wavered.

My first thought when I was hired as the Foodservice Manager, was that I needed to be mindful that it was only by the grace of God that I wasn�t in the line to receive a meal or a safe place to sleep. There was a time in my life where that certainly could have happened. I have seen many people one would never expect to see, coming in and asking for help. I have met people who have lost everything because of ill health, job loss, or other unforeseen circumstances. One�s self-confidence and self-worth can definitely take a nose-dive in such dire situations. There are those who have grown up in families where they have been abused and neglected � never hearing a kind word spoken to them. They are angry and hurt, feeling their life is worthless. Many have no idea how they can find purpose, joy and fulfillment. And that�s exactly why God has placed Haven of Rest here. We are a lighthouse to those in crisis.

Whether it�s circumstances or choices that puts a person into these situations, Haven of Rest carefully works with individuals through quality, comprehensive programming. Needs are met and men and women acquire the tools and encouragement they need to be productive and confident. And it�s very thrilling to see the change that takes place when they understand that they are valuable people, loved by a merciful God, who has a purpose for their lives. I thank God for the many life-changing miracles I�ve seen in these 25 years.

Rose Rose,
Community Relations Coordinator

The harvest is ready!

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Thu, 27 May 2010 08:50:30 EST

I just returned from a conference specifically for those working in rescue missions. It was encouraging to see the amount of people that came and represented gospel rescue missions across the country, and even the world. There were representatives from missions overseas, two in Jamaica, two in Mexico, and one in Germany. Rescue missions are working hard all over the world providing safe havens for the homeless, disenfranchised, and those in crisis! This is a need everywhere!

At the same time, it is easy to feel as if there is so much work to be done, and yet very few workers. Perhaps Jesus’ reminder to his disciples is one that may be good to keep on the forefront of our minds: “Do you not say, ‘Four months more and then the harvest’? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest” (John 4:35). This is the verse from which Harvest Home has taken its name. In this passage Jesus took time to speak to the Samaritan woman who needed to hear about salvation, and then reminded his followers that there are many more people that need to hear! There is a harvest in Akron, and there are hurting women that walk through the doors of Harvest Home looking for hope. It is good to know that there are workers seeking to share the hope of Jesus Christ to the lost. This is why we are thankful for our volunteers! This is why we are thankful for the staff! There is a great work being done here, as there is across the world. Perhaps you may consider being a part of rescue ministry in your local community; if so, remember that the harvest is ready!

Aimee Radebaugh,
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

Good Guys Bad Guys

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Mon, 17 May 2010 09:33:03 EST

The other day I overheard a conversation a 5- and 6-year-old boy were having. The older one said, “I’ll be the good guy. You be the bad guy.” Of course the other boy didn’t want to be the bad guy. No one ever does.

That caused me to start thinking about some good guys here at Haven of Rest. Kappa Phi, a national service sorority, Kent State chapter, were some good guys. They recently made and donated 30 fleece blankets to be given away to the women and children at Harvest Home. Awesome! This is the third year in a row they’ve reached out and helped us. Thanks, Kappa Phi!

Pizza Hut is definitely on my good-guy list. They now have six restaurants that will be donating surplus food to Haven of Rest. What a blessing that will be for us! Thanks
for the help from our friends at Pizza Hut.

The Berean Christian Bookstore in Fairlawn recently donated Bible study materials to be used in our outreach to those really struggling. Thanks to both Fairlawn and Canton locations for they have faithfully helped Haven of Rest in a variety of ways for some years now. They definitely make the good guy list!

Kent State Sociology Department “Pay it Forward” project recently involved students as volunteers here and then they made a substantial financial donation. We were privileged to receive help from these students! Thanks, Golden Flashes! They got some hands-on volunteer experience and voted us a financial donation! We are very grateful and will use those funds to continue to help the hurting.

John Palmer, Director of Football Operations for the University of Akron Zips, is a good guy. Last week he spent quite a bit of his valuable time showing the Resident Men and some staff from Haven of Rest an inside view of the beautiful facilities the Zips football team utilizes! Thanks, John!

I’m so thankful we have so many people who partner with us to help the men, women, and children who are homeless and hurting in our communities!

Mike Solosky,
Donor Relations Coordinator

What's so important about Career Development?

ljdalton@havenofrest.org (LJ Dalton) — Mon, 10 May 2010 13:06:32 EST

Celebrating a goal is exciting! For me, planning the celebration for others who have reached their goal doubles that excitement.

It was just a couple of months ago that I was privileged to plan a graduation celebration for five women from Harvest Home and Women’s Day Room. The women had completed all the requirements for the classes in the Career Development program in order to graduate. Having five women graduate at the same time is outstanding, but the credit goes to the graduates. I guide them through the various classes and assignments, but they do the work. They have to make the commitment to themselves to finish what they’ve started.

Another aspect that makes this graduation celebration unlike many others is the fact that some of the women had moved out of the Harvest Home and the Day Room into their own residence. This meant that in order to complete the classes, they had to make the extra effort to come back to the mission to finish the classes. For most of the women, this meant coordinating their schedules and bus routes to be at class every week, and for some, coordinating the schedule of children as well. The great news is they made the commitment and DID IT!

You may be asking… “What’s so important about Career Development?” The Career Development classes taught at Haven of Rest’s Learning Center help men and women determine what jobs are available to them using the skills they already have. It also shows them options as to what they may want to do in the future. We then help them chart a course.

Career Development means preparing to look for work. One step is gathering the information to fill in all blanks on an application. Another important step is creating a resume to sell the skills of the candidate that will invite the employer to interview them, not just listing previous employers. Interview skills are essential; therefore, we spend time going over possible questions and checking answers.

In order to be one of the top contenders for the position, preparation is the key. We discuss how to research a company as well as what to wear for an interview. Practicing various interview questions is one key part of preparation. We want the candidate to be able to sell themself to the employer in a confident manner. Memorizing answers isn’t the goal here, but instead equipping the candidate to sell themself. They must know their strength and weaknesses, skills and abilities so they can show the employer how the candidate will benefit them.

Is Career Development important? I would shout a very loud “YES!” The women who come into our Learning Center have a very low self-esteem. Through our Career Development classes we have the opportunity to show them how valuable they are, not just to themselves, but also to potential employers.

LJ Dalton
Career Development Coordinator

Why am I here?

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 03 May 2010 10:30:50 EST

Why am I here? I Googled that question and learned that it is one of the most asked questions today. As believers we feel we (should) know why we are here…to serve the Lord, to introduce others to Christ, and to somehow make this world better.

I believe those are accurate answers, but I also wonder if perhaps the answer to that question is a little different for each person. We as Christians are charged with the Great Commission, but we also have the task before us, the day we are currently living, the moment we are experiencing right now. What if the answer to that question could be found in this very moment?

What am I doing right now that no one else could do quite like me? Is it my job, the time I spend with my children, the love and instruction given to a grandbaby? Is it volunteering? Is it stopping everything and praying on behalf of someone else? Is it the new toy given to a homeless child or the cheerful greetings given to fellow-walkers on the Sand Run hiking path? We may never know what small, seemingly insignificant deed tremendously impacted someone’s life.

I remember once when I was facing an extremely serious physical trial in my life, I walked out of my place of employment and a woman I had never seen before or since came up to me, gave me a hug and said “You are so precious to God.” That one moment has given me renewed strength over and over again for more than twenty-five years. I want something I do or say to have that same impact on a life.

So as I look at the faces of the men, women and children who come through the doors of Haven of Rest Ministries, I want to see them…not lines of people blurred together…but individuals in need of food, shelter, care and love. As I think about raising resources for those in need, I want to see their faces and I want to touch their lives.

Yvonne M. Brake, MNO
Director of Development

April 26, 2010

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 16:28:48 EST

Haven of Rest programs are designed to EDUCATE, EMPOWER and ENCOURAGE men and women to be their best. People who come here are in need of love, motivation and guidance. As a result, God gave wisdom to help us design programs to aid the needs of hurting people. The mission plants seeds of Christ and self-worth in their lives, so they can develop hope for the future.

I was listening to Marvin Sapp song ‘The Best In Me’ and this song touches every being of my spirit and my soul. It brings tears to my eyes as it explores the corner of my heart; this is truly a song that everyone can relate to. It speaks of Gods love for us all and how He notices the best in us in spite of what others may see.

When someone comes to the mission, they are broken and it takes courage for them to come but once they are here, they begin to see so much more that God has in store.

He is not only working on the ones who come to the mission for help, but He is also molding the ones who work here. We all are being revamped. It is a blessing that we are able to pray daily for each other, share each other’s lives and encourage one-another.

Haven of Rest opened its doors in 1943, and is still going strong, serving men, women and children who may come to the mission for help while also helping the ones who work here to stay strong in our faith. With God in the forefront, we know that today’s blessings will inspire someone’s future.

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

April 19, 2010

ymcmillan@havenofrest.org (Yvette McMillan) — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 09:13:27 EST

Women who volunteer their time to help others are incredible. Okay, I realized that men who volunteer are special too and one day they will have a blog dedicated to them. However, this one is for the ladies.

Women want to empower and be supportive to other women. They desire to share God’s love with those they serve. They find joy in rocking a baby to sleep, playing Hide and Seek with toddlers or helping school-age children with their homework. They often view the use of their time spent volunteering at church, for their favorite charity or in an academic setting as an investment in the lives of those with whom they interact. In reality that is exactly what they are doing.

It’s an investment that the return on isn’t always seen immediately, but there are moments of encouragement. It’s the smile on a child’s face as she views her first birthday cake, which was baked by a volunteer. It is the agitated infant who stops crying and falls asleep in the arms of a volunteer who takes the time to sing him a lullaby. Just last week Sharon Morris, one of our very special volunteers who assists in our Lydia’s Purse sewing and mentoring class, shared about a participant in that class becoming discouraged with her crooked stitching. After hearing words of encouragement from Sharon and others, she realized that everyone sews a crooked stitch at one time or another. Through the patience shown her she begins to believe her sewing will continue to improve. Thank you, ladies, for your willingness to give of your time to others.

Yvette McMillan
Director of Women’s Division

April 12, 2010

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 14:46:00 EST

On Easter Sunday I was able to hang out with a volunteer I had just met. John and I worked together handing out �Hope Totes� to those who came to the mission or lunch.

It was such a beautiful day. While watching the sun shining through the glass windows we talked about what had brought us to the mission. As we talked we were able to see, even though we were from different backgrounds, we had so much in common, like our love for Christ Jesus and His people, our compassion to serve and our desire to do God�s will.

As the men, women, and children passed through the line to receive their purple bag of personal care items, we were able to talk to some of them briefly and share that there was a tract inside of their bag. We also told them how much a blessing it was to have them eat lunch with us.

Working here at the mission I�ve learned that being estranged from loved ones can really be hard on an individual during the holidays. That is why it is so important for me, as well as John, to extend the same love to others that God�s grace has extended to us. There were so many other groups working as teams that day to serve and show love. Keep volunteering.

It was a very blessed day, if I say so myself!

Katrina Henry
Special Events Coordinator

April 5, 2010

(Ben Walker) — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 15:46:06 EST

Easter represents new life in Christ and as many of us celebrated Resurrection Sunday that theme resonated in the messages we heard. It is a blessing for me to be part of that message every single day here at Haven of Rest Ministries.

Men and women with broken lives, hearts and spirits walk through our doors looking for hope – a chance to repair relationships, recover from addictions, or restart their lives. All of us at the mission have the opportunity to be a part of their transformation. From the front line workers who minister to them on a very personal level to the office workers, administrative staff and development officers – who by fulfilling their daily responsibilities – help to make change possible in the lives of hundreds of people each day. What a message of hope!! The body of Christ, working together, each joint supplying what the other needs to accomplish the Lord’s will in the lives of hurting people.

Ministry is difficult work. Though we may grow tired in the work, we never tire of the work. It is exciting to begin each day with the realization that today someone’s life may be eternally changed because we offered a person a hearty meal, a place to sleep, clothes to wear or a listening ear. Haven of Rest is here for them twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. What an incredible opportunity for ministry.

Rev. Ben W. Walker
Executive Director

March 29, 2010

(Rose Rose) — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 11:54:48 EST

Recently I spent time with two KSU students that arranged to videotape a few former residents’ personal testimonies. They wanted to hear about how lives had been impacted and changed through their stay at Haven of Rest Ministries. The students are working on a project for class and want to share, through a short video, how Haven of Rest truly makes a difference for many in our communities who are suffering from homelessness, addictions, job losses, hunger and various other crises.

The residents who shared their stories had come to Haven of Rest as broken people feeling lost, alienated, and struggling with addictions. Haunting pasts filled them with regret and hopelessness. Now, their eagerness to share about how God had transformed their lives and restored hope through the ministry of Haven of Rest was thrilling!

As I listened to the testimonies of Mary, James and John, I marveled at how their lives are being restored. Renewed hope and joy radiated from their faces and even in their entire countenance! They were truly “new creatures in Christ,” and God was busy restoring hope in their lives.

The students listened intently, obviously touched through what was being said. They left with renewed excitement, discussing ways they can tell the amazing stories of this ministry!

Rose Rose
Community Relations Coordinator

Restoring Hope

aradebaugh@havenofrest.org (Aimee Radebaugh) — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 09:40:54 EST

Most of us in Northeast Ohio get excited this time of year. Spring is around the corner, which means summer is on its way. We usually wish winter away with urgency, as if somehow, if only, we could magically make the snow and cold disappear and replace it with sunshine and warm breezes. We long for the new seasons of spring and summer.

Recently I was talking with a friend about this longing for spring and we began to discuss how there are seasons in our lives as well and often when we are in one season of our lives we long for another. As we journey through life, the circumstances and situations we face can become seasons we enjoy and wish would last forever, or seasons we wish would quickly pass.

Homelessness is a season for the ladies staying at Harvest Home. Disappointments, trials, loneliness, and confusion can be found in this season. One of the things Harvest Home strives to do is offer hope, support, and comfort for those going through a difficult time by pointing them to the God that is Sovereign over all of our lives and all of our seasons. As I think about how hard it can be to come to a shelter, I know that for so many there is a longing for circumstances to change. Yet I also know during difficult seasons, transformation can take place. This is the most rewarding part of working at Harvest Home, seeing the transformation that takes place in a woman as she finds hope and joy in Jesus Christ amidst the adversity she is facing. Psalm 30:5 reminds me that “weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” I have seen the rejoicing of women as they secure housing, find employment, and find a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Nothing can replace the smile on a woman’s face when she has endured her winter, only to find spring is more rewarding then she could have ever imagined.

Aimee Radebaugh
Assistant to the Director, Harvest Home

Restoring Hope

msolosky@havenofrest.org (Michael Solosky) — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 11:05:17 EST

This week I learned of a concept new to me. We have some minor construction going on here at the Mission back in the office area. A dividing wall is being built to enclose an open area into a private office. On the inside wall, opposite the window on the exterior wall of the building, is a rather large window. Upon asking about it I was told the reason it is put there is to borrow the light from that room for another room where there is no external light source.

Haven of Rest is like the �borrowed light� window. We serve as a conduit for the light of Jesus Christ to shine through to all those who come here with their lives in darkness, discouraged and without hope. Many examples of that have occurred throughout the years. Many people come here with their lives in shambles only to be touched by the prayer and love of Jesus Christ that we are privileged to share with them.

A specific example comes to my mind from a couple years ago. I was leading a tour group of fourth graders from a small Christian School. One of the adult chaperones, a mother of one of the students, just opened up as we were walking from one building to the next sharing that her aunt had stayed at Harvest Home, our women and children�s shelter. She said her aunt had a horrible drug addiction and had nearly ruined all her relationships with family because of all the things she had done that hurt them. She went on to say that her aunt found out about Jesus and asked him into her heart at Harvest Home. She is now a new creation! What a blessing! The niece said her aunt�s entire personality has been transformed. This is an example of another life that benefited from the borrowed light from Jesus Christ we share with those walking in the darkness!

Restoring Hope

ybrake@havenofrest.org (Yvonne Brake) — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:21:31 EST

When I was a little girl there were a couple of families who lived in our neighborhood who were very poor. Keep in mind, that we were by no means well off, but two things we did have – food and shoes. However, the children of these families often looked as though they were hungry and desperately in need of clean clothing. The children were close to the same age as my sister and I and we would often play together. Those were the days before video games, X-boxes, and Play Stations. We used our imaginations to play games that lasted for hours.

One day I remember our family was sitting down to dinner and I saw a little girl sitting on the curb in front of our house. She was a relative of one of the neighborhood families. I don’t know why I did this, but I asked her if she was hungry and she said yes. I asked my mother if I could give her some of our food and, of course, Mom said yes. My sister and I brought the little girl out a plate of food and sat with her while she ate. I’ll never forget the expression on her face.

I feel like I’m doing the same thing every day at Haven of Rest. As Director of Development and through my personal gifts, I help provide hungry, hurting people with a nourishing plate of food and so much more. I often think of that little girl and I’m grateful that Christ has allowed me to help children like her find the help they need.

Yvonne Brake
Director of Development

Restoring Hope

khenry@havenofrest.org (Katrina Henry) — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 11:13:48 EST

Restoring hope! Not only is that the theme of this year’s banquets, but it is also the daily goal of this mission. Every day we have the blessing and opportunity to make an eternal difference in the lives of the men and women that we serve here. But have you ever asked yourself the question, how? How is it that we can help restore hope to the hurting? The answer to that is really quite simple. Love is how we start to make a difference.

The apostle Paul wrote, “But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.” The love that we share here is not your candy hearts and flowers type of love. Instead it is the love commanded in 1 John 3:18. “…let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.” We seek to love in deed by providing to those whom God b rings through our doors the basic necessities such as food, clothing and shelter all at no cost .

We seek to love in truth by sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ. We want those who come to us to know that they do have an intrinsic worth, that there is a God who loves them and has made a way of reconciliation for them. We want them to know that there is a better, more abundant life available for them. We want to see them flee from themselves and instead cling to the cross.

As all of this happens, we have the privilege of being ambassadors for Christ. Our clients are watching our lives. They are seeing and hearing the hardships that we all face, and in the process they get to see how God is providing that hope for us. And as they see and listen they themselves begin to have hope. It is then that we get to see God’s miraculous hand. For as their hope grows, so their faith grows, and as their faith grows, their love grows. As their love grows they have the opportunity to share the hope they found in Christ Jesus.

How do you restore hope? One soul at time.

Jason Hubbard
Assistant to the Chaplin

Restoring Hope

ymcmillan@havenofrest.org (Yvette McMillan) — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 13:59:39 EST

Probably most people view February as a very special month because of Valentine’s Day. Not us! February is the anniversary month of Harvest Home, the women’s division of Haven of Rest Ministries. This month we are observing 31 years of ministry to homeless women and women with children. For that reason I want to share something with you.

A young woman staying at our shelter loves to write poetry. She has written several poems with various themes and would like to have them published some day. We are not able to publish them for her but we wanted to do something that will encourage her in cultivating her gift. So we are looking into having them typed and placed in a binder with “Poems by …..,” engraved on the cover of the book.

I thought you might want to read two or three excerpts from her poem entitled “Harvest Home.” I have her permission to share this:

A place that’s full of joy,
and so much more.
A place that’s not just about rules.
A place that even I think is cool.

A place with a Godly touch,
Wish I could meet Mrs. Marjorie
I would tell her “Love you much”

A place that I would
like to call my own.
But it’s just a temporary home.
So I say to each and everyone
I’m glad I found this place,
a place called
Harvest Home !!!

Yvette McMillan
Director of Women’s Division